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Whit77
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Posted: Wed Jan 20th, 2010 05:17 am |
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| My name is Whitney. I need help desperatley!!!! My fiance and i lost our house because we both lost our jobs. (Princeton,Ill). There is no work here for either of us so he decided to go to Dallas,Texas. He left by train on December 22,2009 at 8:35a.m. He was supposed to go to a homeless shelter down there and call as soon as he got there to let us know he was ok. It's been almost a month and nobody has heard anything. We are worried sick. I need to find him and bring him home where he is safe. His name is Jonnathan Eldred Hoffman. He's 33, his birthday is June 14, 1976. He has long, shoulder length blonde hair, blue eyes,blondish-orange facial hair. He's 5'10 and about 200 lbs. Can anyone please help me find him? Or help me figure out how to start looking for him? I would greatly appreciate any kind of help anyone could give me. Tyvm and God Bless!! Please help me bring him home!!
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Posted: Thu Jan 21st, 2010 02:33 am |
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wow whit, how awful for you.........we can all try to focus on an answer during meditation...have you any one in Texas you can contact? or helping you?
I'll send lots of prayers and put out some reiki hi way hoping it could help somehow........so so sorry hon......dee
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Whit77
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Posted: Thu Jan 21st, 2010 01:55 pm |
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| Thank you. I don't have anyone in Texas that i could contact or is helping. All i can do is pray. I've got the numbers for every homeless shelter in Dallas and started calling but so far no luck! All i can do is wait and pray.
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Faye
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Posted: Thu Jan 21st, 2010 11:28 pm |
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| Did you try calling his family, relatives and friends?
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Whit77
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Posted: Thu Jan 21st, 2010 11:35 pm |
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His family is in California but he hardly talks to them. I've called everyone else and nobody has heard from him. We are all trying to find him. They are all just as worried. Ty for your advice.
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Faye
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Posted: Fri Jan 22nd, 2010 03:12 am |
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Okay... How are you coping though? Where are you staying? Are you alright?
I feel to say he's okay. And that you should focus on yourself for now.
Have you also tried notifying the authorities?
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Whit77
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Posted: Sat Jan 23rd, 2010 01:18 am |
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I'm staying place to place right now. Mostly my mom's though. Instead of getting better everyday, i feel the more time that goes on without a word from him, i'm getting worse. I can't sleep or eat or anything. Feels like i'm dying! I haven't notified any authorities yet. I'm trying not to because i'm afraid that the minute i do he'll call. I've been trying to concentrate on myself by keeping myself busy.
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Posted: Sat Jan 23rd, 2010 09:36 pm |
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I am thinking you should call the authorities. Don't prolong your suffering, because time won't make it any better unless you yourself admit what I think you already know.
If you go on wanting to know if he's okay but could not face the reality that he might have left you already, my dearest sister, it is your choice. Give yourself the gift of freedom from this. You owe it to yourself.
Whether or not he got lost, ran away, hid, was delayed, or whatever unforeseen fate he got himself into - you still have to know, because it won't give you the peace your soul has been craving for.
Ask yourself why you're afraid that he'd call - isn't that what you wanted in the first place?
Yes, keep yourself busy and have your family and friends be there for you. It is alright to ask for help and be weak. You have every right to be.
I send you my prayers and love. I know everything will turn out to be alright. Now you just have to believe in that yourself.
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lady_raven
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Posted: Mon Jan 25th, 2010 05:02 am |
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| Sending prayers for strength and serenity your way!
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Posted: Thu Dec 2nd, 2010 06:54 am |
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| what is wrong with you woman !!! don't post that here call the police!
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Posted: Fri Apr 15th, 2011 02:55 am |
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| so you know I have been looking for 10 years for this exact same guy. The reason he owes his three childern child support. Everytime they find him he refuses to pay tucks tail and runs. It would not suprise me if he just took off on you like he left me for stripers 12 years ago we were married for 5 and have three kids. If you locate him tell him to sign off his rights. Cuz I know I well never see a dime
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