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dana64
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Posted: Sun Oct 19th, 2008 05:36 am |
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I need some advice on this........My oldest children's stepmom is always causing problems in one way or another...She has always been done things toward me and has did things to my daughter in law. and been very unfair to my children....This morning I knew she was coming to pick up my granddaughter and I prayed for her and for us to all be able to get along and let things go.........This evening she said some rude things to my daughter in law and my daughter in law was going to let Joleigh spend the night but when all the things was being said she told her she couldn't take her.......So the step mom left.....My daughter in law was talking to me and the step mom came back....She wanted the outfit back that my granddaughter was wearing my daughter in law took it off and had her Joleigh in her arms but she kepr saying things and my daughter in law told her to leave she was by the door so she put up her hand to try to get her out so she could shut it.......The strp mom started hitting her with Joleigh in her arms and also the womans daughter started hitting her also....She had to drop Joleigh on the couch they had her down in the floor and my daughter and her friend got there and started yelling and got it broke up and them out of the house...........
Why would anyone star hitting a person with a child in Robert had to believe his.........I am praying for everyone.......But what do I do when I see her.....I want to just beat the fire out of her but I know that is not what I should do......I hate to see tings happen to get tin between families,,,
This lady works at a school as a nurse with hanicapped children and she has been heard talking about some children and there parents,,,,She was fired from a doctors office for breach of confideniality.....I wouldnt want someone that hits a person with a baby in there arms being around my children.....
Any advice?????/ And lots of prayers please......
I have been doing wonderful with not much pain at all some days none....I haven't been on much because i have had computer problems.......I really miss being on here with all of you........
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Posted: Sun Oct 19th, 2008 06:15 pm |
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Hi dana.........this lady really has some huge issues.....she shouldn't be allowed in the house....If it were my mother in law she wouldn't be anyway....NO ONE should behave that way....ever........but even worse is IN FRONT of a child or while the child is in her mothers arms......Your daughter or daughter in law has many options.....what does this woman's husband think about it all?
At this point I would never all the child alone with this woman.....who knows what can happen.......IF the child did something that angered that woman WHO KNOWS what she would do......I wouldn't trust her to not hit the little one.....and no child should ever be hit out of anger......
I have a few ideas if you'd like to chat about it? when can you have some quiet time for PM's?
Let me know......if you wish......Love Dee
p.s. I'll be sending some prayers and reiki for the child's safety and for her mom to make some decisions about the future of this little girl.....until she makes a descision I don't think that woman should be taking her out alone from her mom.....
glad to hear your fibro is doing well.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
blessings Dee
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Ellie
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Posted: Mon Oct 20th, 2008 02:24 am |
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I would have had there butts arrested for starters.I do not know the situation but I would also think about a restraing order.What is the matter with this women?Then to take the outfit off the babys back because miss crazy was mad at the mom.If I were the babys grand mother I would have things to say to that nut.Years ago when my son was a baby I lived with my sister and her roommate.One day I came home from work and found somethings missing.I asked my sister and the roommate about it and they both proceeded to beat me silly.I ended up with stitches in my head.The bizarre part was that when the police were standing in my kitchen the roommate ripped my son out of my arms and said I was not taking him anywhere that night.They arressted her.My sister and I made peace but yes people can display some odd behavior.Good luck and love and prayers.
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Posted: Mon Oct 20th, 2008 08:08 pm |
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Just to add to my last post yes there was alcohol involved and probubly drugs.Not on my part but the roommates and my sister at the time.
Ellie
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dana64
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Posted: Mon Oct 20th, 2008 10:20 pm |
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My daughterinlaw went and pressed 3rd degree battery charges and criminal trespassing she will not be going to that step grandmothers...The grandfather is welcome at my home there home or the great grandmothers but he can not take her to be around his wife..... She has always been evil and I can not even try to talk to her.....We have had our issues in the past with my children..... She is the nurse at a school for mentallly challanged and handicapped children.......
Everyone just pray for the hardship it is putting on my son and daughterinlaw and granddaughter......This has put a situation that the whole family can't be together to a family to a point.....My granddaughter is waking up crying now......It is all so sad....Why are people so cruel and inconsiderate.....Why even ask for the clothes back anyway??????
I love you all and miss you all I still don't have my computer back....I feel lost from apart of my family......Love and Blessings....Dana
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Ellie
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Posted: Tue Oct 21st, 2008 11:15 am |
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Dana,
My prayers are with you and your family I am sorry you have to go through this.Things do get better you just have to ask and really want it and I am sure you do.My ex husbands current wife is a very cruel and insanely jealous person.When my ex and I first split up I was working the night shift at a nursing home.I had to drop my son off at his fathers so I could go to work one night.As I was pulling away I looked in my rearveiw and saw my son standing outside crying in the freezing rain.She had thrown him out.He was a little kid.I of course turned around and banged on the door.The ex came out and would not let me confront her.He was protecting her over his child.So my ex says ok go to work he can stay.All i could say was.... well I cant repeat it here and I whispered it in my exs ear so my boy didnt hear.I called my boss and ended up taking him to work with me and letting him sleep in the staff lounge all night.So I know about unbalenced people.The very next day I saw her in the store.She tried to run to the car but I stopped her.I told her not to ever go near my child again and I got a restraining order against her.I was way to angry to say anything else.I just kicked her car and walked away.I am praying for your grandaughter that this trauma will pass.I am glad that crazy women is not allwed around her anymore.Poor baby.Well I wish you much love and all gods blessings.
Ellie
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Posted: Tue Oct 21st, 2008 07:22 pm |
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Dana , My prayers are with you and your family I had a similar sittuation happen to me but I thank GOD that my children are adults now . People like that to me are not only nut jobs but also are very unhappy and insecure . To take the clothes from the baby is just insane and to assault a mother while the baby is in her arms is just a cowardly act if you ask me . I can only imagine how this has had an impact on you and all involved I pray that peace will soothe those troubled waters . I am glad that she is not allowed around the baby that should be a wake up call for her if not she has no heart beating in her chest cavity .
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Posted: Thu Oct 23rd, 2008 07:01 pm |
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Thank you all for your prayers and support...This is hard on a family.....My granddaughter is being clingy and has been waking up at times crying which is not like her....I have prayed and am so grateful for your prayers also......
Chosen1 you have it right this person is very insecure and unhappy she has been this way for years.....Everyones true colors always eventually come out.....
Dee and Ellie thank you also...
Love and blessings to you all Dana
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Posted: Thu Oct 23rd, 2008 07:14 pm |
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You are more than welcome and I will continue to pray and ask that the angels surround you and yours during this traumatic experience . Its only normal for the baby to feel this way but I am sure that with time this will be behind her . Call on ST.Michael and ask that the negativity be removed and ST. Raphael to heal the hurt and pain . I will also on your behalf .
Much love 
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