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Posted: Fri Dec 1st, 2006 02:43 am |
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     Hello to all, I am Dana and want to share with you my family. My children are the world to me, my HEART and they come first in my life. I have two beautiful children, a son 6 and my daughter 4. I am very outgoing, freindly, careing woman. I get along with most people,and not hard to get along with. I love giving and helping people as much as I can, I am trufthful, honest. I have a big heart full of love.I am very understanding, a good listiner, and happy go lucky even though sometimes I don't feel that way. My family call me Sunshine and has since my accident also their mirical daughter, sisters, cousins,and friends.. I love meeting new people and making freinds. My family is the most important thing in my life especially my children. I have lost a husband and a son on Dec. 20 1997 and since then I take life diffrently, you never know what will happen and when. You take each day as it were your last, I now, it happened to me in a blink of an eye, my son and husband were gone. Then later I remarried and had my son and daughter. My children keep me going and wanting to get up in the morning and live. I LOVE my children with all that I have and they are what keeps my heart beating. Well i hope you all like my page and hope to hear from you all!!!!
http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Valley/8314/memorial313.html
This is a site to remember my Late Husband Mark Mishoe and Late Son Chance Mishoe. We were in a head on collision on December 20, 1997, my husband was killed instanly and my son lived 10 days, he died on december 30, 1997. Chance was 21 months old at the time. I was the only survior in that crash, it was a truly miricale I lived through it. We were on our way to take Chance to see Santa Clause and finish our christmas shopping, we only got 13 miles from where we lived and the worse thing you could ever imagine, happened. I do take life diffrently because you can loose what you love in a blink of an eye. They will never be forgotten and I will always miss them and love them with all my heart. They may not be here on earth with us but through me, my children and family they will live forever in our Hearts and memorys. Take each day as it were your last because you never know what lies ahead of you and it may be too late to change things, trust me, it happened to me. I do have a son Boone who is 7 and a daughter Carla who is 5. They are what keeps me going day to day. They are my life, my heart, my everything. I thank god for my children and what I have everyday. It is hard but you find a way to deal with it and you will never get over it. this December 20, 2005 made 9 years since the accident and sometimes it feels like a yesturday. They will always live through me, my children and family, I do not want them to be forgotten.
When I was in the hospital, I was on life support till the day my son died. The doctors told my family over and over it would truly be a mirical if I lived, that they have done all they could. Well on December 30, 1997, the doctors had to take me off of life support cause I had been on it too long and was getting sick. So they did not know if I would breathe on my own or not, they told my faimly that. Well I did come through thanks to God. My faimly was trying to figure out how to tell me my son died and who was going to tell me, well they didn't have to. I asked the nurse for my Daddy and Mama to come in my room to me. Daddy got on one side of the bed and grabbed my hand and Mama got on the other side and grabbed my other hand. I looked up at them and they were just a crying, I was crying to but I smiled and said: Chance is gone home Daddy, he is not suffering no more and told them that God told me Chance had gone home and was smiling, and they didn't have to tell me. I preyed and then sang Amazing Grace, Daddy said he had never experienced anything like that before. I just held on to my Daddy's hand and Mama's and cryed with them, their tears were falling on me. God does work in mysterious ways and you have to have faith and believe, because he will always be by your side through good and bad. I have been blessed with two beatiful children, a daighter5 and a son 7. I am a single mother and believe me it is not easy, but I take one day at a time and give it to Jesus. I am in church and love my church members with all my heart and lord they have done alot for me and my children. I am very thankful for everything I have and thank God everyday. I have struggled alot through the years but I just hand it over to Jesus and let him handle it, that is the only way I know how to, if not I don't now how I would deal with it because it is unbearable sometimes and hurts. Just take eveyday as it were your last, because you never now what lies ahead of you and the only person that does is God. I don't now what I would do without him in my life, my heart.
 Dana, Boone & Carla
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Lunamyst
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Posted: Sat Dec 2nd, 2006 02:39 am |
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God bless you Dana...
Your story is truly one of courage as you faced a most terrible tragedy. My most sincere condolences on the loss of your husband and son my friend. How I do admire your faith and confidence in our heavenly father and his plans for us. Indeed, we should be giving thanks for each and every day that we are here. You could say that life, itself, is a miracle...I want to say that I had difficulty reading your story as I became overwhelmed emotionally at what I read. The fact that you are willing to share this moment in your life with all of us here, is indeed a gift. For your testament is for to know and remember...be thankful for each day...Thank you my friend for sharing this with us...May God and his heavenly angels keep you in their care...May his divine unconditional be with you always.
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Lunamyst
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Posted: Tue Feb 27th, 2007 10:02 pm |
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My heart goes out to you and your family you have truly suffered a great loss in a terrible way. I know where your coming from with your children i have 2 daughters and 7 grandchildren and i love the with all my heart my love for them is endless.
I lost my husband 6 years ago through an operation he had i had a dream the night before he was due to have his operation and it wasn't till the next morning i realized what it this dream was trying to tell me. It was telling me that he should not go through with it as he would not make it but, i didn't tell him because it was his decision. He was on life support and the moment the hospital rang me to say he had gone into coma i was by his side all the time.
His family kept telling me he'd be fine but, i knew better i knew he would not come back to me and when he passed i felt so angry that he had left me it was not supposed to happen this way it has taken me 5 and a half years of grieving to get through this but, there is not a day that goes by that i do not think about him.
I have remarried since then but, i put my engagement off so many times and seperated because i still had not gotten over my late husband but, all is good now i do know i'm the person i used to be and never will be that person again.(Happy all the time, not a care in the world like u i guess) I am happy in my marriage but, it'll never be the same as before for my one true love my soul mate has gone.
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Posted: Wed Feb 28th, 2007 09:07 am |
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| Hello Dana, I bless the day that you graced us with your loving presence on this earth, for you are living proof of the existence of Earth angels that walk amongst us radiating infinite beams of pure loving light to all that they connect with. I honour the lives of your dear ones, they must be so proud of the way you have kept your faith and love for the Divine as you are living the sacred through them and all realms of love and light. may you as a family be blessed with love laughter and much happiness now/always, soraya sunra.
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Posted: Wed Feb 28th, 2007 05:50 pm |
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Hi Dana, I have a daughter named Dana what a good name. YOur story really touched me I even cried but your story is so close to mine as far as life support.
There is one story I would like to share. It was the miracle of his life a lot of us witnessed. The year of 2002 our father had triple bypass pass surgery, the doctors thought it went fine until a few weeks later. We discovered that his valve to his heart had ruptured and the doctors were calling the family in to say Good-bye. The doctors told us they would not operate, it was too dangerous and the valve would have to be replaced in order to work again and it was just a matter of time. I refused to hear that so I called a priest and tricked him as he came to dad’s door and I put my hand on his shoulder and told him this isn’t his last rights, I want you to pray for healing. As the priest stood there and looked at me in much surprise! That’s when it all started, ‘’the power of prayer’’. I called my husband Greg and asked him to bring me clothes and I went into Dad’s room and told him if he wanted to leave I would understand but there were so many things I felt he needed to do with all of us as far as memories. I proceeded to tell him if he wanted to fight I would stay at the hospital until he sat up. Dad shook his head yes! Some of the grand kids sat up there with me throughout the night. I ran home made phone calls to people across the United States that were family or friends and I gave them a time to call my house back to I could make recordings of their voices by phone so Dad could hear the love. The whole family came to the hospital and one by one went into his room and gave him a goal and a reason to live. Holly, his grand daughter made a poster of the family saying here is 24 reasons……Dana wetted his lips and suctioned him out. The boys made him laugh. Throughout the day and night every hour on the hour I prayed out loud over my father so he could hear my prayers for him. When I wasn’t in the room I went to the chapel and cried to God to hear my request for a miracle telling him if anyone deserves this let it be him.
The next morning I got up and went towards his room and ran into the doctor I asked him, how is my dad? He shook his head with confusion saying I thought I had the wrong x-rays I even checked the name twice. He told me your dad doesn’t look like the same man that came in yesterday. I knew in my heart that God and his Angels were working but something was missing and that was my Dad’s last brother, Uncle Fran. I called him and he immediately made arrangements to come to help his brother sit up. I played the recordings for dad, everyone gave him the goals,.We all prayed and he could see everyone he loved from a poster board and than his brother came later.
As time went on from day to day, dad came off of life support. The last but least was the heart pump. The doctors made me sign all these papers but I was not afraid he would die because I was seeing a miracle before my eyes. I went as far as saying to my husband if dad comes home will you believe you witness a miracle, Greg said yes, how could he not believe… he knew the score. After signing the ton of papers my son Austin and I went into the room in ICU to see dad before they removed the heart pump. Dad was sitting up mad, yelling WHERE were you? Thomas was here and people were stealing my body parts. Dad said I told them not to mess with me because my daughter was an F.B.I. agent and she would kick their butts and my son Austin started to cry thinking grandpa had lost his mind. The nurse came in and told us don’t worry about it he will never remember what he said to you. As they wheeled my dad down the hall and we were standing in the hall I got this feeling of being calm and it seemed like minutes before his doctor came out and he was walking scratching his head looking up at me with this look on his face I can’t explain. He then turned to the family and looked at me again and said your dad’s heart is fine his valve is healed and everything is working. At that point I figured out who Thomas was and the people that were stealing his body parts it were, my father’s Angels. My husband was surprised and I know my brother was and I just smiled knowing that the power of prayer and love between people can be the most powerful thing on earth.
Since then our father completed every goal, he saw a few more great grand children born. He danced at weddings, he went to beach and felt the sand, he went fishing with his grandson, he laughed at many things with all the kids and we have shared so many new memories. I asked God that day for 1 year in 2002. He gave him to us in pretty good health until the end 2005. He had a life of love and a life witnessing his own miracle and the beauty behind this… I can ask dad today, do you remember Thomas? He tells me the whole story again. So that nurse only thought he wouldn’t remember and I remember all the nurses and doctors as we were leaving Clear Lake hospital touching my fathers head. So our father has lived a good life with a lot of love, he couldn’t take his house to heaven or his bank account or his car but he could leave us something of greater value and that is the memories and the unconditional love and his heart he shared and touched every person with. He left us with the meaning of his life… for us and our children and their children and so on. He left his legacy to live on within us all….. generation after generation. He died last year 02/21/2006
So I believe your son was your angel and God did speak with you and that should leave you comfort to have that kind of miracle. Your deceased husband and your son are with you always. Even when your not looking, they are there. Have faith and keep giving it all to God. Thats what I do and it works...Have a blessed week
As I have watched him throughout this process we call death, I have witnessed the peace within him and as we have talked about his life and now I see him lying there so at peace surrounded by love. Once again and he is comfortable and we are comfortable and I know he is going into the light because of the peace that is with him at this moment of the steps he takes forward towards the other side to be with the family that has left him behind. All I can say is “Thanks Dad†for everything and I hope you have a wonderful
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Posted: Thu Mar 1st, 2007 03:41 am |
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What a powerful testament, my friend! How beautiful it is to behold the almighty power of our heavenly father and his angels! It was faith that kept it all together and triumphed over all odds against. The light and love of our spirit is infinite and that energy can not be destroyed. It is eternal and it can penetrate even the most darkest of situations. You and your beloved family are truly blessed and was given such a beautiful gift which keeps on giving. May it be that you and your family are surrounded by the light and love of the infinite, my friend. I thank you for sharing such a powerful and inspiring story.
Sincerely,
Lunamyst
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