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Multisingularity
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Posted: Mon Sep 22nd, 2008 01:44 am |
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This is a subject that has been bothering me quite a bit as of lately. I am of course male, but all my life there have been few, if any males I have been able to relate to. I guess I will get into this later, first I suppose I should talk about my theory on the male and female side of each person.
I am in strong belief that every one of us has both a male and female side. Many like to consider the female side the right hemisphere of the brain and the male side the left. This makes a great deal of sense when you look at how people are typically aligned. The stereotype for most men is that they are Intelligent (logical, book smart), strong (both physically and spiritually), determined, self preserving, physical, and I am sure many other things (sticking to the positive traits). Well this is of course because a males natural alignment before becoming a whole spiritual being is with the right side of their brain.
A female’s natural alignment is with that of creativity, emotion, beauty, compassion, and so on and so forth. All that comes from the right side of the brain.
Well it goes without saying, that when a person is not a whole being, ie. not in full contact with both hemispheres of their brain, or in touch with their feminine/masculine side, it leads to many misunderstandings, fights, and disturbances between the two sexes.
To look at each side from the opposing sides point of view:
Men are inconsiderate jerks that completely act without emotion or compassion. They use people, and pay more attention to their physical needs than their emotion. They act with no regard to their emotions, do they even have emotions??? UGH!
Woman are completely insane.... They act without any reason whatsoever. They say one thing and do another, seemingly completely without logic. they are beautiful and caring, but are incredibly manipulative and evil.
One can easily see why this fight between the sexes occurs. However there is some good news. Each one of us, that's right, every single one of us, is both male AND female. We may incarnate physically as one sex, but that means nothing as to who we are. I know many woman that are more in touch with their masculine halves (of themselves) than their female halves (again, of themselves), and vice versa. True genius is enabled however when one becomes completely in touch with both of these halves, allowing for logical thought, as well as creative thought. This leads to new ideas and solutions, as well as ways to implement them. it leads to being able to think of possibilities that are seemingly outside of perspective, however being able to keep a logical barrier on these ideas so as to keep them within the realm of possibilities based on observation.
I bring this up today because I am noticing more and more the separation of the sexes and this bothers me greatly. As I said previously, I am male, however I like to think I am fully in touch with both hemispheres of my brain. As a matter of fact, I may even go as far as to say I am more in touch with the right, or female hemisphere, of my brain than the left... but only by a little bit, as I do still LOVE logic, math, and all that fun stuff  .
I read oftentimes about how women band together, and love each other, and are divine, and goddesses, and so on and so foth. And really, this love is wonderful. Not to mention given the history of how women have been treated, I can fully understand the kinship that has formed. It is also oftentimes seen amongst men, but from my experiences to a much lesser extent. this of course would be because, emotion and compassion, come from the female side of the brain.
So when this is looked at, woman that have yet to get in touch with the masculine side of their brain, still have eachother. Woman that have become full beings have all these woman as well. Men not in touch with the female hemisphere of their brains are essentially in endless competition with each other, having trouble handling emotion and compassion. Lastly, and here is the sad one, there are the men that have become in touch with the female hemisphere of their brain, while keeping intact the male hemisphere. These men seemingly have no one to go to, or have a lot of trouble finding solace. Again, this is understandable considering how most men act, but none the less.
I write this for women in hopes that you will understand, and be able to use the gifts you are blessed with understanding easily. These gifts I am referring to are your compassion and emotions. Do not segregate men for lacking emotion, as for many of them, they are just ignorant to that part of themselves. Ignorance is not their fault.
I write this for men. Use your logic to see where women are coming from. The easiest way to do this is to, quite simply, put yourself in their shoes. Use the golden rule, Do one to others, as you would have one do onto yourself.
We are truly all one being divided, and in separate bodies. We can all become one being whole, and in separate bodies (one body would be boring... hehe.) With love and compassion, logic and strength, I write this to all of you. Let us not segregate, but simply understand. I love you all, no matter at what stage in your journey you are at.
Last edited on Tue Sep 23rd, 2008 11:06 pm by Multisingularity
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Ellie
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Posted: Mon Sep 22nd, 2008 01:14 pm |
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| I must quote Henry Kissenger.Noone will ever win the battle of the sexes there is too much fraternizing with the enemy.
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namaste
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Posted: Tue Sep 23rd, 2008 02:26 pm |
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man-women=not good
women-men=not good
man+women=good
women+man=good
women+women=good
men+men=good
We need each other. We are not separate entities according to the profound beliefs of Native Americans. Western thought breaks the universe into bits and pieces and then ties to measure it.
More exists than meets the five senses. Everything has a spirit and is necessary for each and every other essence. Note I did not say thing.
OMMMMMMMMMM Breath deep. Let go. Become one.
works for me,
paul
Blessed be Mother Earth and Father Sun. Yin Yang. yadda yadda yadda
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Ellie
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Posted: Tue Sep 23rd, 2008 02:54 pm |
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i think both sexes can become one when all of man thinks of them as equal.Women do not need men to take care of them and more respected is the women who takes care of herself.I think for people to walk through this world alone is bad.I am talking about all kinds of realtionships.Husband to wife,best friends,siblings,or lovers.Everyone should have someone to take the journey with.Look at Noahs ark.All the animals had someone to take the ride with.I mean people worry about finding the perfect mate, their soul mate if you will.Who says your soul mate has to be the opposite sex.I think souls mates are anyone who we can connect with on a deeper level than anyone else.Its the person who gets you when noone else does.Many people are looking for what they possibly already have.Thats why as a deeper thinker,I would not look down on people who choose to marry someone of the same sex.They have found that person who they can connect with on a very deep level that others can not understand.When it comes down to it if we are lucky to find someone who makes us truely happy we are lucky enough.Prayers to those who are still searching.
Godbless
Ellie
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Posted: Tue Sep 23rd, 2008 07:43 pm |
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You make me chuckle paul.......thanks.......
I'm ill today......had 50 people here sunday and when it was all over I went to bed and woke with a fever and sinus infection......wasn't taking care of myself and over did it......Fibromyalgia affects your immune system and I didn't do reiki for a few days........so everyone.......remember to take good care of your bodies!!!! this is what happens when you don't............ugh....I need Raphael...
visit more often paul? we miss you here......
love Dee
I agree with you about same sex couples Ellie.....I have no problem with anyone being with someone of the same sex......I don't know why people have to make such a big deal out of it.........even though it's bad in the bible...I feel there is a reason why some people are gay......I don't know what it is....but I trust God....and it's between God and that person ....and nothing to do with me....that would be judging someone.....I know I don't want to be judged....and so who am I to judge someone else........
Dee
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Posted: Tue Sep 23rd, 2008 09:14 pm |
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I dont think its a matter of people being gay.Its who you feel connected with.We have no controlover whowe spend our life with.Thats is already decided.I am sorry you are not feeling well Dee.Much love and prayers for you and your sinuses.I had a big issue with colds and flu every year during the winter.2 years ago I had acupunture and I cant say if thats what helped but I only got sick once last winter.I was working in a day care too.The acupunture was supposed to help with my abdominal pain.When I went in they asked about my cheif complaints.One was my sinuses.Not anymore.I dont know anything about how it works but I can breath during the winter now.Anyway Dee you take care of yourself.love ya
Ellie
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Multisingularity
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Posted: Tue Sep 23rd, 2008 11:03 pm |
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Um, I am not entirely sure where the topic of same sex love came from. I was not referring to that when I was talkign about the uality of the sexes within each of us. Given what I brought up, same sex love makes perfect sence. Say there is a male that is far far more in touch with the feminine side of his mind than the masculine side... It makes sense that that person would find other men attractive. The same/opposite can occur for a woman.
What I was writign about, was not the finding of your partner to make you whole. It was about the noticing of the other sex within you already. We are all, both, male and female. This is completely not related to sexual orientation.
Ellie, I completely agree with you that a woman has the ability to take care of herself. Noone needs andyone to survive. However, I can tell you that, even thgouh I do not need anyone to survive, I do greatly want my companion/lover/twin flame/soul mate/eternal friend/ whatever you want to call her. I say her, because my personal preference is still for women... Even though I am probably more female than male myself when it comes to thought.
Anyway, I hope I cleared up any confusions. Love to all. Me
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Posted: Wed Sep 24th, 2008 12:00 am |
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sorry....I knew you weren't but I was referring to Ellie's.....
but, now that you mention it....my masculine side would be?????? I'm not sure....help me...
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Multisingularity
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Posted: Wed Sep 24th, 2008 12:19 am |
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hehe, dee, I was also responding to Ellie. I just wanted to make sure everyone knew I was talking about finding balance within ones self.
When I described the two hemispheres of the brain, I was stating what we are more inclined to be connected to one hemisphere based on the sex we are born, but was definately not stating that we are all only connected to one side, or even that we are definate to connect to one side more than the other based on gender. Everyone has there own levels of connectedness between the two hemispheres of their brain. Though it's true most women are connected more with the feminine side of their brain and most men with the masuline, this is not always the case.
Your masculine side is where your logical thought, courage, strength, lust, and other very stereotypical male aspects come from. Essentially, it is your Knight, or warrior side. AGAIN, I want to note that is is very possible that a female is more in touch with this side of her brain than the other, it is just not the typical case.
The ideal case, for any entity, is to find a balance between both hemispheres, to be in touch with them both equally.
When I was reading about the Merkaba yesterday, after I wrote this all up, it mentioned the 3 star tetrahedrons that exist within us all. The male, female, and neutral. I assume this is a very simialar concept to what I am describing.
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Posted: Wed Sep 24th, 2008 12:46 am |
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well......thank you for clearing that up for me............I must say I think I'm pretty balanced....LOL....some may not agree! LOL
but really.......I'm all about emotion...but have great common sense and I am a warrior that's for sure.....courage....HHhhmmmm...I surprise myself at times....
so I'm my own Knight in Shining Armor? LOL.....sorry .......feeling silly....I'm ill and it's gone to head........I can't breath smell or taste a darn thing...and I just want to sleep for a week till it goes away!
there is alot out there about balancing chakra's etc. and also about balancing both sides of the brain.....completeness.....I'll find it and drop a line or two for you...............
good nite all.........Raphael...where are you....I need some healing honey!!!!!!
Love all..........Dee
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Posted: Wed Sep 24th, 2008 01:38 am |
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I am sorry if I confused anyone.What I was mostly saying was I dont think someone has to be the opposite sex or a lover or husband or wife to be my soulmate.I like having a signifcant other very much.I love Joe.That does not mean he is my soul mate.I am also saying that its nice to have someone but some people prefer not.I know women that can never be without a man.I was alone for 10 years before Joe came along.I hated it at times and other times it was ok.About 10 years ago I met a guy who I fell so hard for.He didnt feel the same.That happens to.I hope noone took offense to my previous posting.god bless and good night.
Ellie
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Posted: Wed Sep 24th, 2008 01:51 am |
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| No offence taken, I just didn't want there to be any confusion. <3's Last edited on Wed Sep 24th, 2008 01:51 am by Multisingularity
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Posted: Wed Sep 24th, 2008 03:28 pm |
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Feel better Dee,
Ellie I hear you loud and clear. I have soulmates of both sexes and no sex is involved. As for the topic in hand. That being the duality of the human psyche. My point was that when you disect the human condition multisingularity the experiment leaves out a HUGE part of the essence of being.
I don't mean to preach however I just.....normally I'd would have said "learned" however these days becoming enlightened is more like "rediscovering the truth that resides within us all". Anyway I am relearning that number one you and I and everyone is a spirit first who is experiencing a human condition. Our Souls have always been and will always be. As such we NORMALLY examine our environment with five senses. It is the Western way. To examine THINGS, To break them down into small pieces, Note its color, consitancy, weight, yadda yadda yadda. Not all cultures limit the human experience to what can be known with five senses.
ANNNNYYWAY,,,,,even science is discovering that it can not explain some things. Quantum physics is a perfect example. Science is now proving the existence of GOD. These things native Americans and those who acknowledge the spirit part of US all have know this all along.
Heck the western world even has named both of these views. Empericism and metaphysics. Metaphysics is the study of the universe with senses other than the five. Empeicism is the study of the universe that can be measured or experienced with five senses.
Your curiosity of the duality of each of us is just the tip of the iceberg as far as how much we all have in common with all that exists. I am thrilled that you are questioning and probing your existence. Keep it up. You, as are we all, are awakening to the truth that lies within your soul. It will continue to reveal itself to you. Like a snoball rolling downhill on a warm day you will find that this awaking will grow.... fast. Fear not. Fear is what blocks our evolution.
go eat your cookies and drink some soy milk paul, you've spewed enough for now.
namaste,
paul
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Posted: Thu Sep 25th, 2008 11:12 am |
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I dont eat cookies.and milk makes me feel gross in my belly.Some sugar free ice cream anyone?Please Paul spew on we love hearing from you.In the mean time can you pray for my 10 yr old dog.He stopped eating.No matter what I do he walks away from his dish now.I am calling the vet today.I love this dog.He follows me around like a.......well I will just say it puppy dog.Thanks all.Much love.
Ellie and scooter
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Posted: Thu Sep 25th, 2008 01:01 pm |
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Oh Ellie.....so sorry about your dog....I hate seeing animals sick....I'll send reiki his way right now...give him lots of hugs.....as I'm sure you do....I feel he is tired? Has he been ill lately? Like I mean the past year or so? Or 'aged' a lot in the past year? The reiki is already flowing for him...as I type...so I'll go and do a session for him now...............Tell him how much you love him...and thank him for being your best friend...Pets are the best......and how wonderful God is for giving us the love of our pets....when you read about everyones love of their pet isn't it wonderful how we all 'light' up and love talking about how much they give us....God knew what he was doing didn't he!!!! Lots of love to you and he....
sending prayers he's ok....love Dee
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Posted: Thu Sep 25th, 2008 01:31 pm |
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Dee,
Thankyou.I have had scooter about 4 monthes.The previous owner asked that I care for him while they rebuilt her condo after a fire.That was like I said 4 monthed ago.I dont think she is coming back.He has been a wonderful friend.He came along just at the right time too.When I got this dog(hes a laso aso)He was full of mats and fleas and he had colitis because she was feeding him cat and people food.I got him cleaned up and most of his problems fixed.On the other hand I have a drs appointment today to have my beely pain checked out.Then scooter gos to the vet.Thanks Dee.Much love to you.
Ellie
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Posted: Thu Sep 25th, 2008 03:36 pm |
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so, sending reiki to you as well ! God surely brought you and Scooter together for a reason.....You both deserve each other...why do some people take in pets when they don't care enough to care 'for' them......It's beyond me? so, prayers for you both......let us know how you make out?
Love Dee
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Posted: Tue Sep 30th, 2008 05:49 am |
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multi, you are so on the right wavelength and understanding of our true nature and its energy. when i first connect to another here, its the energy that i link to and very seldom even look for gender. this my way from beginning,
we are all male/female in perfect balance in our physical vessels, there is no male............ female........ seperated, only male/fem intrically entwinned for our choosing. I have always thought this, and i love radiating maleenergy the same as femaleenergy, both are equally benefic there is no one, higher than the other.
as an aries perspective male sits well, energy of giving, on lap, sits preetily fem energy of receiving, and they swop now and then.
if i ruled the world, apart from every day being spring lol, i would teach these truths, and the word gender a distant but available if seeking info.
love/light/law/life, Soraya
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Posted: Tue Sep 30th, 2008 06:01 am |
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Ellie, much love and prayer energy of purehealing flow together and unite with others in beautiful cleansing flow to you both, as you share and feel the power of our lights connection.
peace and harmony, SORAYA
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Posted: Tue Sep 30th, 2008 06:22 pm |
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Thanks for the prayers everyone.The dizzyness is a little better today but still lingers some.My dog is eating again.I had something interesting happen the other day.I went into the store to return a movie while Joe waited in the car.In front of me was a man who was looking for a movie for his kids.He let me ahead of him and as I was leaving he asked me for a suggestion about which movie to get.I handed him the Bee movie and he invited me to watch it with him and the kids.I explained I could not as I had my boyfriend waiting in the car.He then said, "I will bet he does not appreciate you and spend enough time with you".I had to ask how he knew that and he said, "beautiful,wonderful girls are rarely appreciated for what they are and what they give".He said he could read me.He knew I had a compassionate soul and felt things very deeply.I dont know if he was using a line or what but he seemed to know me.I have never seen this man before in my life.I did not tell Joe because he tends to get antsy when other men approach me.I know if he was worried he would be around more.He has been trying.I am nothing special for men to look at and I know that.I have more going for me than that.ok I dont know where I am going with this it was just a strange encounter was my point.
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