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Posted: Mon Oct 20th, 2008 04:16 am |
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Years ago I was extremely sensitive. I used to let every little thing bother me, got offended over nothing and cried easily. I became stronger by praying, maturing, and just learning to let things roll off my back.
Well this has been a rollercoaster ride of a week. There is alot of negativity going on at my job, and just alot of unhappiness in general in my family. I am fed up with the insults, and gossip, and most of all I am sick of people burdening me with there problems. I just want to run away!
Please pray that I regain my strenght, and just deal with this stress!
Thank you
Rita
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Posted: Mon Oct 20th, 2008 02:19 pm |
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Hi Rita
Dee here........sorry hon...these things ARE hard to deal with for sure!
Before you go to work everyday try your best to remember to call on Michael....ask him to keep those people and their words and actions at bay.......don't forget that God gave us all these wonderful wise beings of light to be with us and HELP us through times just like yours.....I call on Michael daily to be right in front of me with that huge shield of his keeping me safe from any negative actions from others......also asking God and Jesus to be at my side and guide me with the right actions and words to deal with people's 'stuff'....
I'm getting that you are a child of God and a lightworker as well..........try to work on this issue you have at work by being that 'light' of God you are........maybe by your 'action's or NON reactions you may spark something in the others (even if you cannot see it) that may bring up in them a sense of how wrong their actions are....by learning to live in this light of God and working on being that 'Christ-like' child you will be showing others just what their behavior is doing and just how wrong it is
I'm also getting the word 'patience' for you....keep up this Christ-like Light around you...and when someone comes into your 'space' smile inside and KNOW that you are protected....before walking in that door vision that army of guides, angels and beings of light God is surrounding you with......when things are not going well........imagine them surrounding you and know you can smile inside (or out) and know they are not able to penetrate that wall of love and kindness....
as for the unhappiness in your family....Don't allow it to be with you at home either.......always ...every day....ask for these helpers God gives us to surround you....be in the moment but focus on you and your idea of love....and not their negative unhappy selves...pray for them.......be an example...be happy and exude love no matter what is going on...by NOT reacting to these things YOU are changing the 'mood' of the people around you.....YOU will start setting the tone of what comes and goes into your day and life.....
If we approach our day 'cringing' at the thought of what is ahead of us then we are 'bringing' it in...........please be patient about the changes that lie ahead....as BAD as it is now...It will change for you........Promise...
NO wonder you are tired and spent......your whole day you are being pulled in all directions and everyone is draining your energy.....think about you.....about your health....these things will only come into illnesses.
set yourself free from these actions ......people....I promise from my own experiences that it will change for you.......when ever you feel that resentment and anger rising in you....remember it only hurts you emotionally and in your body as well.......so, when this happens...smile to yourself...and know you are being protected...and take breaths....deep breaths....and release that awful feeling you just had.......send it out....the universe will heal it.........and if you pray for these people (from your heart) you will be rewarded by God threefold....and that is from experience as well.
Hope you have a better day from here on in.......I will send prayers for you as well.........Jesus is with you.......helping you everystep of the way......
blessings for you
Dee
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Posted: Mon Oct 20th, 2008 10:29 pm |
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Rita pray every morning and ask for the angels to block you from the negativity and if someone starts something with that change the subject and walk away and ask for help again.....Eliminate yourself from it as much as possible.....It's sad some people just thrive on causing it...I have had to eliminate myself away from some because they always were causing drama....I have found my true friends and eliminated some that I had had for a long time.....Pray and meditate....You will make it through this bright and strong ....Blessings dana....
Hey and Dee always has some of the best and wisest advice I have had she is blessed and a blessing!!!!!!
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Posted: Tue Oct 21st, 2008 01:10 pm |
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hello again rita
just a word about the post reply from yesterday......I don't want you to get the wrong idea when I said....if we approach our day 'cringing' at the thought of what is ahead of us then we are 'bringing' it in.........that didn't really come out as it was meant......by NO means are you 'Bringing it in' !!!!!
It's more of when we approach our day that way then it is 'as if' we are 'allowing' it to come in........in other words...STOP it from entering in...know what I mean?
keep a conversation going with your guides and angels.....Jesus etc.....talk as if they were standing right there with you.....THEY ARE...and they 'wait' for us to ask for their help...so ask them........to step in and heal the situation for your highest good........when ever dealt with a situation like this or really any request from them ask that it be done for the 'highest' good....because our words can sometimes come out wrong....sort of like the 'be careful what you wish for'.....in using these words of our 'highest' good we then leave it to GOD and the universe to heal it as it should be healed.....so there is no guessing as to what our words should be.....See?
Keep us posted on how things work out for you? I hope you will........we sometimes have to find that trust that this is going on for a reason only God knows.....trust is huge...forgiveness is Key...just protect yourself....that is a step of 'safety' for you.....
Blessings for you and prayers as well.......Love Dee
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Posted: Tue Oct 21st, 2008 01:19 pm |
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Hey dana
I agree with you about the people who just thrive on this sort of behavior. Some don't realize just how bad that behavior is......and if they knew what it was going to bring back to them maybe they would stop.........we don't know the reasons....but I'm sure they could all use some serious healing. I'm getting that we need to always try to not think badly about them.........HUH....like that is easy!!! NOT !!!
I try ...but don't do well at it often.......instead try to see that they have just not been enlightened as of yet......which is NO reason for being mean....there is no excuse...and I'm not giving them an excuse....all I am saying is if God can still love them than the least I can do is not condemn and judge them......not easy either......I've not come that far in my journey as to just say...oh well....do bad things it's ok.......I want to scream at those kind of people too..........and the old Dee would have..but, their bad behavior isn't worth my going through the karmic stuff for letting my tongue fly ! know what I mean ? I've gotten better though...and like you said in your post too: we just have to remove ourselves when we can....and if we can't just give yourself that protection...
wishing everyone a great day...in spite of the difficulties it may bring.....learning to deal with these sort of things makes us stronger....shows us HOW to work in faith of God...so, it is all a growth experience right? LOL
that's one way to look at it !! LOL
much love ladies.........have a good one!!!
Dee
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Posted: Tue Oct 21st, 2008 05:45 pm |
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Hi ,
Yes I too am surrounded by gossip , drama and negativity I call on ST.Michael every day and as mentioned continue to call on him . I used to be that way too taking everything to heart and getting angry at people for their comments . But now , with a lot of prayer and staying constantly in communion with GOD and the angels its getting better all the time . It does take patience but I pray that all will be well for you . As we share the same issues . In my family drama and gossip is all that I am surrounded with and I thank GOD that I am not a gossiper as with time it can get very tiring and the end result people will not want to deal with you . People come to me with their problems I dont mind listening and do what I can to help but sometimes it becomes a burden and I guess because I am making their issues a part of my life and I had to back off from those people . Dee and Dana are correct ST.Michael is the one to call on and he will shield you from that neagtive energy .
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Posted: Tue Oct 21st, 2008 07:01 pm |
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Hi Rita,
It sounds to me that you are beginning to draw your boundaries. We try to be good people and one of the things that makes us feel good is helping others out. But that is a gift from us, not an obligation. If people are burdening you with their problems they are crossing into your precious space, demanding answers rather than leaving you the space to give if you wish. It's okay to say "no" to their problems, insults and negativity. We need more than the strength to keep enduring, what we need is the strength to draw the lines so we won't have to endure what takes away our joy.
I'll pray for some joy and happiness for you and your family.
RedBird
Hey Dee, Dana, Chosen1,
Missed y'all and everyone else here. So good to be around you guys again! Looking forward to catching up. Needed some serious space to myself. I'm fine. Looking forward to hearing from everyone.
RedBird
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Posted: Tue Oct 21st, 2008 07:08 pm |
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Likewise Redbird its so good to know that you will be around I have been gone for a while also but it feels so wonderful to continue with this exchanging / learning experience .
I agree and it is well said that we need to learn how to draw the line with people but for me I need to learn how to say no and to also learn to have patience when dealing with others and their issues . The word Tolerance came to mind with this particular case .
Welcome Back Redbird
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Posted: Wed Oct 22nd, 2008 10:02 pm |
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I send healing to you and rita and pray for your emotional strenghten to only get better!.
Sometimes you got to cry to learn how to laugh!
Sending much love and blessings..
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