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Posted: Sun Jul 24th, 2011 07:06 pm |
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dear chastity,
i hope you dont get me wrong. i feel you should not fear that man. he has been stalking you for a very long time now and he had many opportunities to harm you. not that he should. i dont think he will harm you. he is feeding on your fear. i wonder what came upon him. your husband or your dad should go to have a word with him and see what is it he wants from you. most likely he is only thriving in fear that he brings in you.
i was once attaced by a total stranger. he was delusional calling me names and hitting me on the head at the trainstation. i was going to colledge. it was my final exam. after he stopped beating me on the head he started threatening me if i go to the police he will find me and stuff. people around me were just observing. some even laughed at me. but i went on with my business, took the test and passed it ( ). never told anyone about the incident cos i did not want the drama. but that man went on stalking me. i was afraid. sure. i remember every time when i saw his face around the corner he was enjoying every second of my fear. but i did nothing. and i said to myself. the worst thing that can happen is that he kills me. and even that is not so bad. and i stopped being afraid. very soon after that i never ever saw him again. but few years later i overheared a conversation that such and such a man was found dead. they were talking about my stalker. it is a small city that i live in and we all know each other... though i never saw my attacer before in my life. i was shocked when i recognized a feeling of relief in my stomac. i was almost happy. and felt horible. i wil never ever forget the feeling.
i know you are afraid honey but that is what he wants from you. the worst thing that can happen is that you get killed. and that is not so bad. i know it sounds awful thing to say. but once i accepted it i was not afraid any more and the stalking stopped.
it helped me. after that this became my creedo. in a fearful situation i say to myself that. or you can say - if it does not kill me it will make me stronger
a radical thought. i hope you dont misunderstand me. please. i am praying for you and call Michael for your protection
and do yourself a favour. dont let him feel your fear. dont give him that pleasure
stay safe and protected
love zeljka
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gnortonshores
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Posted: Sun Jul 24th, 2011 08:05 pm |
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Hello
Thanks for your reply. This guy is obsessed with me for some reason and my dad and police did talk to him. He always says he will stop his behavior but then turns around and does it again. He always drives past my workplace and I just ignore him when he honks and waves. I no longer get a rush of fear when I see him, even when he drove up to me on his motorcycle last week. What he has been doing is sending me letters, money, jewelry etc. He used to call me on the phone but I now have an unlisted number. If he does anything like that again, the police will get him and they warned him about that so hopefully he will get the message.
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Posted: Sun Jul 24th, 2011 08:19 pm |
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i read something about intention. every day as you walk out from your house set the intention - i intend not to see that man today.
maybe you can also try stop seing him as a threat. just as a person, a friend, waving at you in good spirit... forget he ever wanted from you anything. just start to acknowledge him as a friend, and try to feel like he is a friend. it is a long shot but may also change your perspective. he definitely wants your attention.
surprise him. just smile and wave the next time and he just may snap out of it. he is after trouble and wont stop until he creates one. does not matter where as long as it is trouble.
if i were you i would aproach to him and ask him honestly what is it he wants. i know that may be dangerous. but if that was my last shot i would do it.
i hope you get your freedom back soon.
love, zeljka
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Posted: Sun Jul 24th, 2011 09:40 pm |
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that's a good idea zeljka.........as long as you are in public and there are people around...lots of people...does he get that close to you? dee
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gnortonshores
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Posted: Sun Jul 24th, 2011 09:51 pm |
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There were some people around when he approached me on his motorcycle. The police and my parents said do not speak to him at all. That will just encourage him and he will think I enjoy his attention. Plus he was making comments about my body which I didn't need to hear..
Last edited on Sun Jul 24th, 2011 09:59 pm by gnortonshores
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Posted: Sun Jul 24th, 2011 09:59 pm |
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that is true.....you should listen to them, they know best...he is not stable so yeah he could take it the wrong way....there is probably no reasoning with him....
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Posted: Mon Jul 25th, 2011 07:48 am |
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i see your point and agree.
edited: you know what honey.
i just had a flash of certainty in my heart when this is going to stop.
it will stop when you feel love for him in your heart any time you see him. it should not be hard. try to imagine you love that man. he is your long lost brother and you just saw him all lost and confused and you feel the need to help him get better. love him. love that poor man who desperately needs you to love him. you dont need to do anything but love him. feel it in your heart. i already do. it is going to be rewarding for you both
the moment you feel utter love for him is the moment you get your freedom back.
the insight came from someone who wants us all to love each other
and i need to add this too.
today i am overwhealmed by love.
another thought entered my mind telling me this
imagine if that poor man was you father. your child. how would you go about handling the situation where he is obssessing you. or someone else. would you tell him gently -please, stop this insanity. you are loved by many, what you are doing is hurting me.
on the soul level you have great chances to get through to him. eventually he will settle down. maybe in your mind there can be a way for you to feel compassion and talk to him (on the soul level, just pretend you talk to him.. you are sending a thought wave that usually reaches hearts) Last edited on Mon Jul 25th, 2011 11:34 am by october10th
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Posted: Mon Jul 25th, 2011 11:39 pm |
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When this man was talking to me, he started getting tears in his eyes and he was telling me that he loved me and that he wanted me to wear the bracelet he sent me in the mail. I did feel sorry for him and told him I was sorry about the mess with the police etc but then he went and called the police on my parents and they weren't even doing anything. At least things are quiet for now. October10, do you think it was God giving those insights or one of the angels? Hopefully things will be quiet and peaceful..
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Posted: Tue Jul 26th, 2011 05:34 am |
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as far as i learned so far it looks like a carmic thing. him being obssessed by you is not a natural thing, i mean a normal blalnced thing. consider he is so hot you cant take your eyes off f him. you would be in a relationship where he would be a jealous partner making your life a mess. this is much better option. less torturing for you and him.
please take care of yourself. i dont think it is wise to talk to him at this point. just feeling of compassion for him is enough. this is what he needs. a break. i am sending him love to help him feel better but until you two learn a thing or two from this, the tensions will persist. i am sending love to you chastity too.
i just got an audiable regrression guide from doreen virtue this lady is so wonderful. she speaks in such a soothing tone that even hearing her speak as healing powers. i knew before she is one awesome lady. i read amny of her books recently.
i think you could gain much with pats life regression...
lots of love and freedom to you
love zeljka
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Posted: Wed Jul 27th, 2011 09:44 pm |
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That idiot sent me a letter in the mail today and also one to my parents. He threatened saying that if my parents told his wife about what he has been doing, he will write a letter to my work headquarters with a copy of a tape that had my mom's voice on it that said he is not allowed where I work and it will be their fault I lose a job. No such tape exists unless he made it with someone else's voice. He also said that he has a right to defend himself with a firearm if he has to. He said that it is not his fault that my parents have bad DNA and produced a hideous offspring(me).
This guy is clearly Satan in human disguise and deserves harsh punishment and no mercy at all
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Posted: Fri Jul 29th, 2011 08:58 am |
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honey, but mercy is the only way to accept that man. how else can you accept him as he is. through compassionate understanding that he is not quite himself you can eliberate yourself from feeling angry. know what the truth is and ignore him.
he is a threat to you. consider what is the worst thing he can do to you and just accept it. then surrender yourself to higher power and keep your faith this will resolve soon
there is little you can do except to take care of yourself this way. of course you can do many things. but none of them is worth it
my prayers are with you
and may he finds peace in his soul
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Posted: Wed Aug 10th, 2011 10:44 pm |
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Well, I got another long letter from him in the mail today. He told me that he should have went into the bad parts of town and gave a crackhead my address and my parents address. He also said that if my parents tell his wife about him following me and harassing me, he is going to get creative. That sounds like a threat to m
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Posted: Thu Aug 11th, 2011 06:00 am |
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i am so sorry you are in this ugly situation.
he is now again trying to get your attention, trying to scare you since that feeds him.
of course you need to report the letter.
as for you, can you get creative to settle this issue? he reminds me f my kids.. as if they are asking, begging to be punished. they go on and on, pushing me to punish them.. like they want that.
hat is how he is behaving.
do you know there is only one way to go through that, from my perspctive, i would stop resisting and just let it be. ok. so you threat me. ok. you will get creative.. just let it be. try to be strong. i hope he gets arrested so you can feel safe again
he should stop his lunacy and get some professional help
love and protection dear..
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Posted: Thu Aug 11th, 2011 11:29 am |
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ok ...now this guy is threatening you and your family....THIS is a crime...you can have him picked up at this point...which will come out to his wife exactly what is going on and has been going on........If you can show this to the police they can go talk to him...maybe they can scare him enough to make him stop....especially since he is writing to you and your parents...threats are not ok.....they can step in now and do something...driving by may be stalking...but putting this in writing is going to work in your favor here....you now have the law on your side....talk to the them...with your parents....get this resolved !!! he is a sick man. and maybe he'll actually get some help....!!! lets hope so!
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Posted: Thu Aug 11th, 2011 01:58 pm |
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| Chastity.... this is not good.... I continue to pray for your protection and safety....May you be surrounded by white protective light, always.
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gnortonshores
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Posted: Fri Jan 20th, 2012 11:49 pm |
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I know it has been a long time since I updated this situation but this is what has been happening: I noticed a car with its lights on outside my house and walked to the window and on my way there I noticed it was that creep's jeep. I ran to the phone with my adrenaline going and then walked with it back to the window in which case he was gone. I know the police would not do anything unless he actually came to my door so I did not call them. I called the police a few months ago about that guy and the officer who answered was not a nice person and said that driving by my house is not a crime. He only called the guy up and told him to leave me alone. The guy(Robert is his name)denied even being around my house. More fun and excitement in my life
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